“Effects of Negative People on Your Life and How to Deal With it”

“Effects of Negative People on Your Life and How to Deal With it”

Effect of negative people on your
life

1.
Thinking Process

All of your
life actions depends on your thinking process, and on your mental state if it
they are in negative direction your whole life will be in negative direction.
Being around negative people will make you feel negative all the time.

2.
Negative Thoughts

They
dominate over your thoughts with their negativity and drain all of your
positive energy and make you to feel trapped and overwhelmed. They love
bringing others down every time and it sometimes seem like that’s the only
thing they enjoy doing.

3.
Time Killers

Negative
people are your biggest enemies in life .They are the ones who waste your time.
They are with you –even when you are not with them, and live inside your mind
and don’t allow you to think about meaningful things of life.

4.
Demotivation

They lose your motivation which is the most
important factor of your life to achieve your dreams. They don’t have their own
ideas and will always spread negativity in others people ideas .They may be
your best friends and may be good with you but in actually their pessimistic
thinking can affect your thinking. Being around negative people for long
periods of time can turn you into a pessimistic negative thinker. Therefore,
whenever in your life when you deal with such folk, take time afterward to
recharge your emotional batteries.

5.
Criticism

Negative
people always criticize everyone and everything around them and they don’t
believe on hard work they always create reason for their failures instead of
finding the solution and they drain enthusiasm from every new idea.

6.
Focus

They always
focuses on the negative side of story and trapped your focus toward negativity,
they always talk about people failures instead of people successes. Being
around such people destroy your credibility, others people judge you by people
that you associate with.

How to deal with negative people

1.
Take control of your life

One of the
most powerful secret reveal by William Ernest Henley (1849–1903) in his famous
poem “Invictus”,

He reveal,

I am the master of
my fate

I am the captain of
my soul

William Ernest Henley

He found
within himself the power, the truth, the soulful secret that we all are born to
run our life by our own rules and don’t ever allow anyone to take control of
your life. Don’t let a negative person cause you to doubt your intelligence or
undermine your desire to pursue your dreams.

We all are
born to write each and every line on the book of our destiny by our own beliefs
by our own actions, never allow anyone to write a single word on the book of
your destiny.

2.
Learn to Avoid

You have to
keep in mind you are not the only one who face negative people in your life. Don’t
let them catch you in their web of negativity because as soon as you do, that’s
when they start draining your energy.The best thing you can do is to avoid them.
Try to avoid any type of discussion with them. Don’t fight with them, it will
only waste your precious meaningful time of your beautiful life

3.
Daily Habit

There are
some fundamental psychological facts that can affect your entire life if you
fully aware of it. If you practice it daily basis it will definitely change
your life

They are,

What you see you become

What you think you become

What you read you become

Where you are you become

When you
look at optimistic people you will feel optimistic they motivate you by their
talks and actions .Attached yourself with such people. Read about those people
about their daily habits their achievements it will definitely motivate you and
will make you a persistence person. Being around with great people will make
you feel like them.

4.
Be Positive

Always look
at the positive side of the story , you need to practice it , Whenever the
negative tirade starts just keep yourself calm and smile and don’t say anything
to anyone. Some negative people are simply seeking to get a reaction from you.
That’s what they feed on. Give sometime to yourself and sit in the open
pleasant environment close your eyes, imagine some past best memories and
positive aspects of life.

5.
Be Shine

Always look
at yourself first before look at others, and think how you can bring positive
change in side yourself,

“Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am
wise, so I am changing myself.”

-Rumi

Affirm your
positivity by doing nice things for every person around you on every occasion. Don’t
expect massive changes overnight. The only person you have control over is you,
so focus on your happiness. Rise above and remain positive.

Conclusion

Let me give
you simple but powerful secrete…..which may be you know already…..but
actually ….you are not aware of it…….

“Just ignore negative people “.